Over-Analyzing

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You can spend minutes, hours.
Days, weeks or even months.
Over-Analyzing a situation;

Trying to put the pieces together.
Justifying what could’ve, would’ve happened.

…or you can just leave the pieces on the floor.
And move on!

Your choice!

AFTER THOUGHT:
Live your life and don’t sweat the small stuff life brings your way and you’ll find less stress in your life, that’s what I’m saying above.

Because I spent over 5 years trying to analyze why and how I got sent to prison. It wasted a lot of my mind capacity that it shouldn’t of. My choices I made that one early morning were the wrong ones. I’m learning every day though.

Until next time…

Tony Gidican
DOC # 301528

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The strength of humility

Wherever our society got the “meek is weak” idea from, I don’t know…but this idea is so far removed from the truth that it’s not even funny.

Think about this for a minute.

Any weak-minded, untaught individual can raise a fist. Many with no effort it seems, can whip out a disrespectful remark in no time. It’s part of people, because they have been desensitized to disrespect and violence for so long.

Often, when kids get bullied, parents- desperate, and unsure of what to do to help their child, may say things like  “That’s it. We need to take you to karate school so you can learn to fight back.”

When has retaliation ever solved a problem? It just creates more retaliation. It perpetuates a cycle that society seems to fall in line with perfectly, and one that keeps going around and around…It’s like the dog that can never catch up with his tail. He never catches it, he just keeps chasing it.

It takes a strong-minded person to break the negative cycle of retaliation and pride, and to re-train their mind. To build new genes. It takes a lot of strength to walk away from a fight. To deescalate a tense and stressful situation by saying “I’m sorry.” To listen when being talked to, and not think you already knew everything. It takes a certain strength of mind to turn around and give a cup of coffee to the person who just yelled in your face.

It takes true strength of mind to be humble, because being proud, overbearing, and taking revenge, have been glorified for so long.

Humility, my friends, takes some character.

10 Beauty Uses For Coconut Oil

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I don’t know about you, but I love coconut oil! It is well-known for its use as a cooking oil, but did you know that coconut oil has many beneficial and practical uses in the beauty department as well? And who doesn’t like a beauty product that works well, is multifunctional, and healthy for you at the same time? Let’s explore some of the uses for this wonderful substance.

  1. Moisturizer – did you know that you can use coconut oil to moisturize your face and body? Not only does it work wonders for dry skin, it’s a very light oil which means it absorbs quickly and easily into the skin, without leaving you feeling greasy. It works well for dry skin, chapped skin, and to keep your skin healthy and soft.
  2. Cuticles – coconut oil can be used to moisturize and gently push back cuticles. Just put a couple of…

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Planning ahead for February 12, 2015

Okay. So for all of you who have been sitting around on your sofa with your cup of coffee just WONDERING what in the world I am going to be doing on February 12, 2015— here is my answer. (even if you’re like most people, and didn’t even think about it)

There is this awesome movement that has begun to spread like crazy!!! It’s called P.A.V.E, which stands for People Against Violent Examples. And for a whole day, people across the globe are not watching any violence that whole day. I’m going to support this great cause. Do you want to join me?

This means for one day: Put those violent video games away. Turn off those violent movies, and don’t watch violence on the computer. And for heaven’s sakes, get violent behaviors out of your life too.

Now, even if the whole world isn’t doing it, does that mean you shouldn’t? As I learned a long time ago, “Stand up for what is right, even if you’re the only one standing.” So, there goes that excuse. Even if there’s just a few of us. We’ll do it and we’ll make a difference one of these days.

So what will YOU be doing on February 12th?  I sure hope it’s not watching violence. If you care to share, drop a note down below.

You should totally check out their Facebook page when you get a second, and I don’t mean when you’re done procrastinating. Don’t delay 🙂

Here it is: https://www.facebook.com/PavePeace

Thank you so much y’all, and I hope you join in on February 12th of next year and take a stand against violent viewing!!!!!

The important things in life

For so long it seems people have lost the meaning of values. Now the important things to many people, are just the opposite of what they should be. Why do people take joy in watching violence and suffering on television in the name of ‘entertainment’? Why do people camp in front of Apple for a week to get the latest iPhone, and trample any one or any thing in their path to get to that iPhone that they need! They been waiting for a whole week for this thing!!

There are things in life more important. Things that society has seemed to lose. Self-respect, peace, listening to people, patience, kindness, self-control. Morality. Teaching our kids ourselves, instead of letting the TV dump garbage into their innocent minds. Finding joy in life. (even when away from the iPhone) The definition of a true lady. Healthy living. These are the things that move me to break silence. Bringing back the basics and finding the beauty in life is very important to me, because as a young person in this generation, I feel that society is so depleted.

The character lessons are missing! Why, this oughta be the top thing in our minds. We look around and see school shootings, bullying, and violence. Parents put their children in front of these movies, as this being an entertaining and acceptable thing– where the people are ‘acting’ all these bad scenes out, and then ask why they have so many behavioral issues. Societies values have diminished from what they used to be.

Being raised with an excellent character program, I guess these things stick out to me. I never had gotten into a lot of the troubles that many kids my age got, and get into…so when I see into this troubled world, it makes me want to make a difference. I am very grateful to have been raised with the Peaceful Solution Character Education Program. Here’s their website right here. And no, I don’t get anything for tellin y’all about it!! LOL.

Come on, people. It’s about change. Change doesn’t start with the other guy.  I once heard a quote from a very wise teacher, who said “Moral character is not only the solution, it is our obligation.” Now, I know sometimes we can have lazy tendencies, but this, my friends isn’t something we can afford to be lazy about. This is our future we’re talking about here. Our next president, our future congressmen and women, our future UPS delivery guys, our future teachers, and dads and moms, are the kids that are growing up today. To me, its ever so clear that if we want a sane world then, we need to teach character now.